Help! I want to save my marriage?
My husband and I have had a rocky marriage for the past couple of years. We have 2 young kids. Recently, I think he has gotten interested in a coworker. I don’t think anything physical has happened yet. But I don’t know for sure. I know he has lunch with her almost everyday. And he doesn’t realize it, but he brings her up a lot.
And today, there was a corporate baseball game. He came home late and said that everyone went out to dinner. Everyone was him, this coworker and another person from work. I don’t think he is lying.
Actually, I think he has been very honest but I feel in my heart that he has a thing for her. She is recently divorced. I want to save my marriage but I don’t know what to do next.
Any advice???
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Its all his choice.. but if you could introduce some Novelity (Newness) into your relationship it would help alot… maybe having sex more getting a baby sitter and going out together… when he gets home sound enthused and Make sure the he sees that you are interested in him… it helps alot… that might be what he sees in the other girl… someone who is interested in him and guys enjoy the attention thoroughly good luck !~!’
(((((DONT MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE A PLAYER AS SOON AS YOU KNOW YOU GOT HIM)))) CONFRONT HIM ABout the coworker!
on way to slow down the connection is to talk with her directly. If she has a thing for him she will shy away from hanging around him because you contacted her.
ok heres what ya do and for all you dumb muthafuckaz imma break it down illa
1. kidnap the kids tell them yall r goin on a lil road trip but leave a real nasty noat behind 2 ya hubbie that saus : I KIDNAPPED THE KIDS IF U WANTTHEM BACK THEN HELP ME MAKE OUR MARRAGE WORK!!
2. he will want them back unless he hates da lil brats and this plan will work good luck ma nigga
Tell him it is not appropriate to socialize with a co-worker of the opposite sex. He is married, and if he wants to stay that way, knock it off!
You better have him read your question, then with no kids no tv or radio or electronics, you 2 talk about it.
First of all, if he has feelings for her it may be too late.
You don’t say why your marriage has been rocky for a couple of years, but fix those things first. Without knowing what they were, I am not certain but it sounds like you need to have a heart to heart. You need to tell him that you love him and are serious about strengthening your marriage. His reaction to that will tell you all you need to know about if it is serious with this female co-worker.
probably start spending some more time together, having family day trips to where ever, u have 2 be each otehrs best friend and ask him bout this co-worker
I have always heard that the major reasons for the breakdown of a marriage are sex and money. If you don’t have problem with either, then it’s another woman. If your husband is not getting enough sex at home he will start fantasizing about anyone else. GIve up the sex and make the man happy.
Here are some suggestions:
Dress nice and surprise him at work with the kids. The coworker will have the chance to see him as a family unit.
While he is talking to you about his work day, rub his hand gently.
Look at him as if he is the only important thing in your world.
Always make sure the kids go to bed early.
Dress nice at home.
Keep the house clean and fresh.
Keep yourself clean and fresh.
Get a new hair cut.
A marriage is something that you have to work at every day. Never take your husband for granted and don’t let him take you for granted.
Find out what she is giving him that you are not.
Clearly him being with her serves a purpose that you’re not doing anymore.