If you want your ex back, is it better to ignore her completely or tell her that you don’t want her?

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1. Marylou F says:

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   mmmm it’s an interesting situation. I think she wants you too but she’s waiting for you to make the first move! Don’t ignore her completely but i suggest that you play the jealousy card…. make her feel like if it’s not her… it can be somebody else even if you don’t actually mean it. Make her realize herself that she still loves you and i guess she’ll eventually come back
2. Madison says:

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   Oh my god What’s with you guys? If you want her back then Tell her you WANT her or Ignore her. But don’t lie to her because then she’ll get the wrong idea. Sometimes if you want something really badly YOU have to make the first move because if you keep ignoring her forever or lie to her she’ll NEVER know and then you could lose her forever….. If I were you I would go up to her alone and tell her how you feel and that you want her back because you still have feelings for her…. To me that’s the Right thing to do, not mask the issue because you’re afraid to be vulnerable. When you put yourself into a vulnerable position it doesn’t mean you’re 100% going to get hurt it means that you’re brave enough to express how you truly feel and if you do that then she’ll feel more relax to tell you that she wants to get back together too. So go get her you tiger you!
3. anon says:

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   sometimes ignoring doesn’t work.. sometimes they just get pissed that you are ignoring them. Tell her how you feel.
4. xoxoxo says:

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   I don’t know why you would want to play games!
   Act like you are not interested in her, but don’t TELL her or she might get with someone else, and be over it.
   don’t completely ignore her, or she will again find someone else and get over it.