How do I get over my married lover?

I had an affair with a married man almost 3 yrs. ago that lasted about a year. I fell head over heels in love with him and I told him so.

He was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I told him many times that I loved him and he in return told me he loved me. I told him that I was leaving my husband for him and he told me that I could do whatever I wanted to do, but he was not leaving his wife, he loved her.

I want him back so freakin bad, and I have been trying everything to get him to realize that he loved me.

I even told his wife tht he talks to me and tht we were still seeing each other, but I guess tht didn’t work, because he is still with her. I just want all the stuff that he did with me back. He was so sweet and kind and everything that I wanted in a man.

He told me in Nov. 07 that he didn’t want to see me anymore, and that he didn’t want me to call him again, but I did, several times after my Dad died, I just wanted to see him and get one of his hugs. But, he told me that he didn’t want to see me.

I guess that he does love his wife, because whenever I see them togehter they seem to be very happy and loving.

he knows about the affair,(I told her) but she still is with him. I want him back so bad and will do anything to get him back. How can I make him realize just how much he means to me and how much I love him?

He will not answer any of my calls.

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