How do I get my husband to fall in love with me all over again??
To put this in better perspective, I am 38 weeks pregnant, working, already have a five year old daughter, and I think he may be cheating on me. I am extremely busy but am willing to do anything to make this marriage work. Any suggestions??
I said **might be ** cheating. this is not fact and i dont feel he is so far gone and removed from me that there is nothing i can do. blaghhh to the negative remarks, geez!!
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this is the question i posted earlier. i dearly love him, but there are some odd behaviors that he has been displaying.
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okay well do u know for sure if he is havoing an affair? also wanting to save a marriage is a good thing and never feel stupid for wanting to jsut make sure there is something there worth saving to begin with.go back to ur dating days before kid what did u do besides sex that u can do right now while preg rekindle that intrest that led to this marriage to begin with. though dont be blind if u know he has had an affir u let him know girl ur not to be taken for granted ever.tell him u know waht is going on and u want to save what is left before it gets to late. counsling would be a major part of that.he has done worng if he has cheated and if he sees u r okay with it no matter what u do will stop him from doing it again. restart that friendship that led to ur passion. a mother should always be strong. remember if he has done u wrong think of the moral values ur children will pick up from this if he doesn’t want to change. good luck
If he’s cheating, then it’s too late. He’s fallen in love with someone else.
Yes. Do something kinky, something u could do with your beautiful pregnant body without being uncomfortable. Something u never done b4 but would love to try. Have fun!
Your husband may be cheating, but you wanna improve yourself because its what…YOUR fault???
God, some women just kill me…..
Men love a chase. That’s usually how a relationship starts. Give him a chase again. Don’t make yourself available to him at all times. Make him work for your attention and when you give it, give it in bulk. Back off again after that. The least interest you show the better. He’ll be eating out of your hand.
If he’s cheating let him go. He to0k the vows and should love you no matter what.
let him do things that you wouldnt normally do.
Like everything you love, you have to make time for it. Don’t take things for granted. If you love him and are willing to "do anything" then do it, make the time, learn about each other all over again.
you need to talk to him and get it out i nthe open
I would address the fact that you feel he is cheating on you. Talk to him about this, as he is your husband, and you need to know.
Talk to him and get counseling if necessary. You need more than an unforgettable time to make a marriage last and be mended. Talk to him about your fears of losing him and let him know that you want it to work. Talk about the good and bad of things right now and find out what he is needing. If he is cheating it means that something he feels he needs is not there that he has to go out and find it somewhere. Both of you need to make it work, you can’t make him fall in love with you again.
Might I ask why it has to be you to revive your marriage?
Marriage is a partnership that involves two. If he is cheating now, I will venture to say he will do it again in the future.
well you could go back and remember theday u guys met and then do the same things u did in order for him to fall in love with you and see if thta works but if it doesn’t then try something else besides what i told you but i guaranteed that this might work.
it’s hard, that old saying again you can take a horse to water, firstly do you love yourself. if you don’t how can he. do you talk?? ask your family to take you 5yr old and spend quality time together not at home go get a hotel relax cuddle do things together. what reason do you have to think he is cheating think about it rationally are you sure you aren’t feeling depressed pre natal depression. I really hope you can find answers to these questions and answers to save your marriage only you know what he like’s and dislike’s.
Good luck and don’t give up..
this doesn’t even make sense??!!! if you are saying that you think he is cheating on you for affect, you did good! i am reeling here!!!!
and i actually thought it might be a productive question…..
No sorry ,but if you get a good answer let me know I could ask the same question ,but pregnacy sometimes puts a damper on romance .Men are afraid they will hurt the baby.
Remember what it was like when you fell in love with each other the first time.
As busy as you are. Invest in your relationship. The most important thing I can stress is a date night with your husband!!!
I don’t buy ANY excuse… I’m too busy, we’re broke, we don’t have a sitter. All of that is nonsense.
A date night can happen when the 5 year old is in bed and the two of your share a bottle of non-alcoholic wine (since you are pregnant) and a movie followed by a bath or shower together or just lying in bed talking. Taking a nice stroll to notice the leaves, maybe a picnic in the park… be creative if you don’t have the funds. If you do, then you can do something fun like in the middle of the day do a seedy hotel hook up. Middle of the day find a motel next to his work and ask him to meet you in room #___ for lunch, he’ll wonder what got into you, but I’m sure he’ll be all for it.
Send him love notes in his lunches. (This one makes mine happy) I sent mine a text a few weeks ago saying "thinking of you" then the next text said "naked of course". Remember what it’s like to flirt.
i really think you may need to set him down and talk to him about how you are felling also if it is more your sex life pick up strip teas dancing it make you feel sexy and may keep him more in treated in you even though your reagent so am i and it keep my husband toned in to me its not just for your husband its more for you to feel sexy and its great exercises
I am not sure you can get someone to fall in love again , i think if he cheating then the trust you had is gone and when the trust is gone you have nothing to fight for.
Yes, just relax darling. As a graduate biologist and also a father with a child of the same age, suspicions are are part of insecurity when you need security the most and boy do our wives give us hell during these times! Its all part of the game of love.
You need to understand that love is a perception, a state of mind and there are many ways to express true love. In the early stages it is kissing and caressing at every possible moment, but as life goes on there are otther ways as the physcial stuff becomes less obvious.
I love my wife and kids and I consider I express this by caring for every need they have, by being there for them and by letting them know I aadore them even though i live far away. there are different ways of expressing love. Just accept those raging hormones have taken control of your body!
Plan a nice quiet get away for just the two of you and let your hair down. Just be like you were when you first met and carefree.
I think he needs a swift kick in the rear. You’re pregnant and he may be cheating! That’s seriously messed up on his part.
I suggest you talk to him openly and get into therapy if something is wrong, but I would be very careful about doing "anything" to make it work. If you find out he is cheating, I’d run, not walk, to the best attorney I could find.
do all the thing it took to get him, remember this it takes the same thing to keep him.
okey, I hope, you are just a little insecure at this moment. It is only natural.
First of all, tell me why you think he is cheating on you. What has he demonstrated to you, to make you believe he is cheating.