My Girlfriend Fell In Love With Her Ex Again. What Do I Do?
About 4 months ago I started dating my currently ex girlfriend and she had a rough break up with her boyfriend when they broke up. This was about a month before me and her got together. But through it all we managed to get through it and were steady for 4 months.
Everything was perfect and I couldn’t see anything going wrong. I worked for her dad and her mom loved me and I was such a help to their family and her little sister always wanted me to come over so she could play with me.
She even had a crush on me but she was 10 so it was cute. I’m 18 by the way. She got me to work out and change my life completely and then one day she had a huge life changing moment. She realized she couldn’t do something she has been doing since she was a baby.
So her mind was all messed up. She put up a wall to everyone including me, then all of a sudden she ran into her ex boyfriend and they had a conversation that lasted 3 hours. And i don’t like him one bit and she knew that. She continued to speak to him after saying she hated him.
When they broke up she hated his guts, he was a prick to her and I guess I was the shoulder to cry on at the time.
So, all of a sudden she meets up with him and she dumped me with full intentions of getting back together with him. Technically they aren’t together right now but she just doesn’t want to be mean and rub in my face so they aren’t technically dating but she already has…
Is she worth it? I love this girl so much and I put so much into this relationship…
Her parents still love me and her little sister asks where I am, and I need this girl.
Its all i think about. But she doesn’t realize she’s getting back into the same mess with him that she was in before me and even her parents recognize it but they really cant do anything about it…
What do I do? Please help me.
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get on the bus, Gus and move on with your life.
In the future stay away from girls, especially those out of long term relationships, on the rebound, because that was all it was. She never truly fell out of love and she will keep going back untill he leaves her for good.
The longer the relationship the longer a girl needs to get over it.
There is absolutely nothing you can do, so don’t make this mistake again. Also remember an "ex" is an ex for a reason, so before ever taking one back, consider closely the reasons "she or you", left in the first place.
It’s time to move on and let her go, yeah easier said than done…but it’s time you kick that whore to the curb!
i agree with the first guy
pack up and move on, there are more women out there
Go ahead and wait and hope to get back with her..but be careful of what you want, because you just might get it. And if you do get back together-won’t it be wonderful to know that always in the back of your mind you really don’t trust her. But if you love the idea of this person rather than who she really is…then go ahead and enjoy the abuse!
we got the same situation bro. the best way you can do is let her go. She just used you as a rebound for her ex. don’t let this girl fool you. go out with another girl show her that she’s nothing to you..
we got the same situation bro. the best way you can do is let her go. She just used you as a rebound for her ex. don’t let this girl fool you. go out with another girl show her that she’s just nothing to you..
dude! okay i am sort of in the same situation. only.. she left him in the first place because of me. but she really likes me still. she knows that i am one million times better than the other guy. but she just cant get past the feelings that she still has for him. she’s almost 17, im almost 16, what should i do? i mean i know you guys are sayin move on.. but its not like i was a rebound, because she left him for me in the first place. she was fallin for me too. we had been unofficially together for about a month and a half after they broke up. and they had dated for seven months. but she knows i am way better than him, thats why its hard for her, and thats why im not just moving on quite yet. plus i am absolutely crazy in love with her. and she knows that. any comments??
I am reading this 6 months after em and my ex broke up.. she was in the same situation as was i.. it sucks so much true.. i waited.. half a year to see what will happen.. well it happens that she was not the girl i always thought she was.. she will act one way with me and another with someone else..
…Plus im pretty sure there is more to her and her then what she’s told me..
Well apart from the complete hatred i have for these highly ‘respectful’ women.. i think we all should FORGET IT AND MOVE ON.. and f*ck it.. I’m sure we’re all pretty young in here.. so we got one girl we can do it again..
Not worth fighting when the battle is over.. and as they say a good general knows when to fight and when not to fight… don’t waste energy people.. there is a whole world full of joy out there!!!
more to her and her ex* correction for line 4