Help saving a marriage?

When I was drunk I kissed me ex in front of my current boyfriend. Neil (my bf) was so jealous and now he is threatening to call off the wedding. It’s all booked we are moving to Massachusetts in 2 weeks. I think that he won’t let it go easily. Please help, he is my rock.

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4 Responses to “Help saving a marriage?”

  • random says:

    you could tell him you were so drunk that you thought your ex was him. You really don’t remember the night that well. Or you could say that your ex grabbed you and kissed. Either way let him know that you want to spend the rest of your waking hours with him not the ex.

  • ibtc8503 says:

    Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Tell him how sorry you are for what you did and that it was a huge mistake. Also I would point out the fact that you are moving away from the ex b/f as well. As for the future if he forgives you possibly steer clear of alcohol so there aren’t any more jealous times. Alcohol seems to heighten the emotions.

  • Denae says:

    I’m sorry that happened to you. It has recently happened to me also. There was a ton of alcohol involved, and my husband kissed one of his friends. Speaking from the other end of the situation, I would recommend you letting Neil know just how much you REALLY love him. Do everything in your power to make him see it. Talk it out with him and let him know that you are really sorry, and ask him to forgive you. Don’t be ashamed to shed some tears. Be honest with him and let him know the whole situation. Don’t try to push him to forgive you because it won’t help. Trust me. If he still wants to break it off, that’s on him. No matter what you do, he still has to be willing and ready to move forward from this. Give him some time to get through it, but be there for him when he needs you. Now is your chance to show him that he is your rock. Good luck.

  • yeah its me says:

    how come something is always happening when one gets drunk.? tell him how u feel and how sorry u are and also try to reason with him. he may not forgive you because you were way bogus for what you do. Alcohol is not an excuse and what if you get drunk again?

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