what does sex feel like for the first time?
so im not planning on having it—im saving myself for marriage. i was just wondering how it felt the first time. everyone says it hurts (books and magazines), but why and how much does it hurt?
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It hurts because when the man is inserting himself into you, he has to break the hymen, which is a little piece of skin blocking the opening to your vagina, it’s also called "the cherry". But some women don’t have this, because it is very easy to break it. Some could have lost it by something as simple as riding a bike, a horse, or possibly a motorcycle. Many break it when they first use a tampon. Breaking it hurts very much, a searing pain. There may be a little bit of blood after you break it. Sex could also hurt because when you’re a virgin, your vagina is tight, small. Unless the man’s penis is very small (haha, poor guy), the penis is wider than the vagina and during sex it stretches it. Another reason why it could hurt is the man is too long (the vagina is about 4-6 inches long, depending on your height) and is touching the cervix when going in and out. He could bruise this, and it will become sore, or actually damage it.
After you get past the painful part (which could be a couple times before you feel completely comfortable) it feels absolutely wonderful. If it continues to feel uncomfortable or painful, try a different position. One I would recomend when trying to get away from the pain is to climb on top of him when he’s laying down. Then you can control how you move and avoid the painful spots. In doing this, you can find your "G-Spot" which is actually the most sensitive spot in your vagina. It has many many nerve endings, so when something rubs against it? One word: Yum. Feels amazing.
Lol hope that answers all your questions. Congratulations on your decision to wait till marriage. :]
Good for you for saving yourself until marriage! I am doing the exact same thing, so I obviously don’t know the answer to your question. Haha.
If I were you, I would save myself for marriage! Saves yourself a lot of heartache as well as other things. Plus, it’s the best gift that you could give to your husband!
good for you! i am planning on not having it until i get married but i am in a strong relationship and i am scared because i have been asked but i obviously said no to all of them because i knew what would happen if i did!