My boyfriend is getting divorce & his soon to be ex-wife wants him back?
Ok so my boyfriend is getting divorce but now his soon to be ex-wife wants him back she constantly txts him, uses the "i need to see u to discuss the divorce" excuses & has even called him past 2am when i was with him he didnt answer but i asked who was calling at that time & he told me that she calls him every saturday when shes out & after she has a couple of drinks to try to work things out & it really bothered me that he didnt tell me that she had been calling him for the past weekends im so jealous cuz he was with this girl for over 5 yrs so i know she played an important part in his life & the thing that bothers me more is that they broke it off cuz she cheated so now that shes sorry im afraid he’ll run back to her sorry abt for the long writting im just so confused! some1 help…..
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She is a cheater-nobody wants a cheater. Just play it cool if he really loves you-you have nothing to worry about but if you go overboard on acting jealous it will ruin everything. The relationship is "not that important" if she threw it away so carelessly and he knows that.
Until the divorce is final, you shouldn’t see him.
Until he can be totally honest with you, you shouldn’t see him.
Until he is no longer emotionally attached to her, you shouldn’t see him.
Clearly they have unfinished business.
I would hope he wouldn’t run back to a cheater. But if he does, then you don’t need to be with someone who’s that weak and indecisive. Don’t worry. If you’re meant to be with him, then everything will work itself out. Remember how important you are and that you deserve to be with a good man. You’ll see if he’s the one.
I can’t feel sorry for you jumping into bed with a married man. There’s no reason to be jealous. You shouldn’t of been seeing a married man to begin with. We reep what we soe
this is a hard one. he isn’t responsible for his soon to be ex – wife calling and he might not of wanted you to be scared off by her phone calls, so he tried to handle it himself sit down and talk to him about it if your gut says there is more to the story move on.
You have the right to be afraid. If they do not have children together then he should not be in contact with her. When she calls he needs to tell her to talk to her lawyer. If they do have a child then you need to deal with her calls. She cheated, her bad, he left her, his choice. He couldn’t deal with the fact that she cheated. She found out the hard way the grass isn’t greener, now she wants what she threw away. If his divorce is not final you are "with" a maried man. There are 2 reasons he wouldn’t talk to you about his calls from her.
1. He’s done with her, he wants to get this over, and telling you would only hurt you.
2. he has had some time to think about it and he can forgive her and he is lying to you.
What ever the reason you need to sit down and talk about this. He may be trying to protect you but he may be playing you. Really no way to tell from what you posted.
Sorry, good luck.
This is why one should not date people who are separated or waiting for a divorce, b/c circumstances can change and for the most part, you will not win. You should have waited until his divorce was final, b/c as a married man and if he sees her, there would be no reason why looking back over 5 years of marriage, feelings may resurface and they will start their relationship again physically and leave you out in the cold.
You created this situation, all to have a b/f…he’s not your b/f, he has not earned that title yet…he is though the man you’re having an affair with and like most affairs, they can come to an end if marriage partners want to work things out AND THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO as they have a history together that overrides yours. And please, don’t do what Reille Hunter did with John Edwards and get pregnant to bond him to you, that child does not deserve to grow up with a legacy of wack adults who don’t know how to make mature decisions.
Ok, imma b real about something, I can honestly say that bad choices produces lots of unnecessary drama……period. Getting involved with someone who have unresolved issues is a big mistake and will only make “you” insecure in the end. Unless your “guy” comes completely clean and get divorced, as well as release the emotional tides btween the 2 of them, u’ll never feel safe or secure in this relationship…..and quite honestly, is it really a relationship or a shipwreck that u have with this guy in the first place? Sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts. But, I will add this, if he’s truly moved on and wants 2 b with you, he’ll do everything in his power not 2 lose you, so that the divorce of his will become final, and she will become less of a threat bcuz he will c 2 that!
never date a man who is seperating because they soon to b ex always finds ways to mess with their heads to have them in the palm of their hand …men will do anything to return to their family even though they were left …they will do anything for that women who messes with their head just because they love them more than they love you hurtful but realistic men only want that women who they have spent most of their life with
I relish, cause I discovered exactly what I was looking for. You’ve ended my 4 day long hunt! God Bless you man. Have a great day. Bye