What’s Wrong, How To Get My Husband To Desire Me Again?
I and husband married 15 years, we always love each other, and desire each other, more often he desires me more, and he never rejected me even when he is tired.
Two month ago I found out he had an affair, sexually with his female staff, he is the boss.
Then I calmly let him know about this and want him stop.
I can feel he always loves me even when he had a affair and desire me.
We had a cold period after that, but things passed, we talk again, we make love again, but the love changed.
He started not desire me during the week, when I desire him, he sometimes reject me, he doesn’t have the passion as I do. I made everything I can to provoke him, make myself sexy, new hair, new sexy outfit, new sex toys, go out alone. Even he rejected the idea we went out alone for a weekend.
What is wrong? Am I pushing to hard?
Is it possible after I let him know that I know his affair he still want to punish me?
Though he hold me and hug me, but push away my hand from his Private part which before he enjoys it.
I need a man’s opinion for my problem.
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why the hell do you still want him? he cheated. you CALMLY let him know that you found out about the affair?! WTF? i would have cut his nuts off and handed them to him.
You need a serious talk about this with your man…
I’m serious.
ouch!!!!!, sounds like he may love the women he had the affair with, sorry sweetie
work on your personality, and your relationship with him. a healthy sexual relationship will come from a good personal relationship.
Its sounds as if you have pushed to much and also perhaps forgiven a little too easily – it looks a bit doormat/desperate to some blokes. Sad but fact of the matter men are tricky and he has been a sh*t to you and you seem to have taken it all so he probably thinks less of you.
The other option is perhaps he had an affair because he had feelings for this person and it wasnt just about sex. Perhaps he is emotionally distant from you? Mne are not just sex machines perhaps that fling fulfilled something for him he never got from you?
I think you have been really decent but the only way to get to the bottom of this is to seek couple counselling before its too late. Then again, very few relationships are built to last forever and most people don’t marry their soulmate. I would say about 5% of people are lucky enough for that to happen all the others settle.
Sorry if this stuff is depressing it is. You have done nothing wrong.
Ok, you may don’t like what what i say.
he found with this woman what you did not give him during 15 years of marriage, may be love or sex. don’t tell me that you give him all what he needs, see what other women do to their men and do like them.
you may see that you did every thing possible to keep him away from her.
with her he have only the good time, but with you he share good and bad time.
stop nagging, stop being bossy, stop arguing, stop bringing problems to him once he come back home.
ask yourself what this woman has and you don’t.
he will not change and be all yours in short time, it will take longer time till he forget her, specially he sees her daily.
ensure that he cut all relations with her.
good luck.
you sound extremely desperate. since he effed up and cheated on u…YOU CALL THE SHOTS NOW
He’s at it again, or having problems getting it up and is embarrassed about it.
Play hard to get. You are to easy on him. Make yourself more mysterious. Personally i would have to leave. Being cheated on is a huge problem for me. I just couldn’t be with him anymore. The trust would be gone and I need that for a good relationship.
take english lessons
lose weight
use your mouth instead of your hand next time…
Well I am not a man but my opinion is that he doesn’t want you. He just wants you to stop touching him all together which is a sign of disaster. I bet that he is still having an affair with the other women. If I were you I would have left him along time ago. You do not deserve to be treated like that at all. Sounds like he is no longer interested in you anymore. I am so so so sorry that your husband has done this to you. You deserve so much better than this. I would just leave him, b/c you deserve so so much better. gl and sorry!
I am with Heather on this one…..
I would have been one pissed of lady… and he would have to come to me …. and maybe just maybe I would let him do me…
You must have a good talk to your partner about that issue why he is like that. Openness and understanding is the way for a man heart. After you have a good talk and now understand each other, feel to your man that you are the only girl that can please him when it comes to love making and no one else.
Hi,
If you want to get again, you should improve your figure like sexy look which can easily attract to your husband and use bikini dress code in at your home also believe him.
The key to a proper relationship regardless of those differences is understanding and love. If you are been left by your husband in a reason which is about your figure, then it’s not considered as love but pleasure in life which is related to lust. Proper talk and orientation with the help of those parents in you and your partner will solve those conflicts in your relationship.
If you want that your husband should attract towards yourself, try some sexy dresses in home. Also, talk with him on this issue frankly. Ask him what are those thing in you which make him to be like this.
To have a good sexual relationship, both partner must know how to explore things and stuffs that can make their sexual activity really boost at its peak. Well for me, the key for that is proper understanding and continuous loving regardless of your differences to each other. Love both another whatever happens.
It is important to know that sex toys will not alone make him desire you, but you both need to sit down and see where he wants this to go from now. I mean yeah he was lacking something in the marriage and went outside to get it. Not excusable but it happened, so now both need to sit down talk and see where this is going. And if you need to get out no sooner than later its always better. Hopefully you dont have kids as this changes the whole situation.
I think he has lost interest in you that’s why he acts in such a wired way towards you..One solution if you want your husband back show him the wild side of yours and make him realize whats he is missing.. Automatically he will get back to you