Ex-boyfriend advice!?
My ex-boyfriend ended things a little over 3 months ago, my fault! And we have not talked or seem each other since then… I still love him big time and I think he loves me as well… Yesterday my friend heard a radio dedication to me from him… Before the song (that we both love) it said "This is to the only girl I’ve been with that I have ever truely loved, I relise this now and I have lost her! I have never stopped loving her!"… I don’t know what to do and need your advice! I can’t call him! He ended it, I messed up, so it has to be him to call me, right? I don’t want to call him and further mess things up either! B/c he may need this time… Please give me your advice on this matter! Thanks! 
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dedicate a song back to him on the radio
(same station would probably help!)
i would call-leave a message/text him.
just say something along the lines of
"i have been thinking of you alot and I haven’t been able to keep our ended relationship out of my mind. We ended it on bad terms and I know its my fault, but do you think we could meet for lunch to talk about it?"
Thats sweet, don’t waste your time blaming him and saying he should be the one to call. Act on your instinct and call him – what have you got to lose?!
You should definitely tell him how you feel. He already dedicated a song to you, so he still has feeling for you. Just call him up, tell him you made a mistake and that you still love him.
Did they actually say your name on the radio or are you just assuming it was to you?
If they said your name then call him. He’s obviously wanting to talk to you and doesn’t have the balls to call you himself. If they didn’t I’d save myself the possible embarrassment and wait for him to call.
okay first AWWWW!
haha well obviously if hes gunna haeva radio dedication from him to you , you have to make the next move
and if you dont wanna call, mayeb you should text him, or something,
i always hope ill meet him somewhere unexpecteddddddd
Life’s too short. Call him already!
i think you should call him. he already made the first step by making the dedication. love is not about who should call first or who messed up or who ended it. its about admitting when your wrong, fixing what is broken and nurturing eachother. call him if you love him!!!
i def. think you should be the bigger one and call. just casually say hey…i heard you dedicated the song.. because obviously he is too ashamed to call you. if you two are meant to be together, it doesn’t JUST happen, you have to work it too.
In a way he did call you…he called a radio station to play a song for you!
He may still need his time, so don’t presure him but you should let him know that your friend heard the song and your feelings about it — if you thought it was sweet, if it you liked that he did that. You can also tell him if you want to be friends again (every boyfriend/girlfriend are friends during their relationship whether it began as friends and grew to dating or they just met and started dated and became friends) or miss taking to him/seeing him. Don’t get overly mushy or emotional, just express a desire to have the lines of comunication open. I hope this helps. Good luck.
Without having some sense of what happened it’s difficult. Did you apologize for what you did? Have you offered to atone for what you did? Aside from promising to "never do it again" is there a reasonable expectation that you won’t? (You need to know that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior and changing those patterns is difficult.)
Get over your pride and call him. You F’ed up, he loves you and you love him, say youre sorry and move forward. While writing your question you could have called him and settled your differences. Especially since this was your FAULT! This guy has come forth and done his part, hes being the better person……………….. Well go on, what are wating for? Get on the phone and call him! Go to his house! Whatever it takes! (dont go psycho though lol)
That’s so sweet! Don’t wait for him to call. He may be afraid of messing things up, too! Since he was the one who ended it, he’s probably scared that you won’t take him back. Call him! Make some nice conversation with him. Like "Hi, how are you? I just wanted to see how you are…" and take it from there! 3 months is pretty long time…he must’ve had "his time" already.
Good luck!
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