What Can I Say To Him To Turn Him On?

Are you able to recall what it felt like when you first fell in love with each other, especially how easily you were able to turn him on? According to Relationship expert James Bauer this tremendous state of emotions does necessarily not have to stop.

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Stephanie

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How To Become The Light of His Life

Here’s what it feels like to a man when he first falls in love with a woman.  He feels happy.  His happiness flows naturally from expectations of something wonderful in his future.  He feels more connected with the world, even when she’s not around.

His mind is compartmentalized, so he sometimes gets so engrossed in his work that he is literally surprised by the joyful emotions that erupt for a few seconds each time something reminds him of you during the course of his work day.

Tips To Turn My Husband OnIf he continues down this road, the euphoria of love makes him start to adore everything about you.

The edges of your lips, your neckline, the tone of your voice, everything about you starts to seem perfect and magical.  He begins to fantasize about kissing you before his boss snaps him out of it in the middle of a meeting.

This all sounds pretty close to what you would expect so far, right?  Well, what happens next may seem a little odd.

All those positive feelings build into a desire to become your lover.  What that means to a man is very different than what it means to a woman.

In his quest to become your lover, a man’s feelings will shift toward a desire to impress you.  That sounds nice, right?  Well, it can be nice, or not, depending on how you respond to him.

You see, men have a soft spot underneath the hard emotional exterior.  We may act tough, stubborn, angry, or macho on the outside, but all that is really serving a softer emotional need.  Men cannot thrive in a deep passionate type of relationship unless they feel they have a woman’s admiration and respect.

If your man thinks you like him, but he feels you do not really admire him, the “in love” feelings will quickly fade and often extinguish completely like the wick of a candle that has been snuffed out.

If you snuff out the fire from the wick of a candle, it’s out.   You can warm up to him all you want, but he will feel cold and only respond by blowing little wisps of smoke into your face from the extinguished flame.  Many women have felt this.  Some women have been through it more than once in a marriage.

Men desire admiration in a way that women would find hard to believe.  Testosterone is, as you know, the male sex hormone.  When it is active, he feels manly and alive.  He feels happy.

Did you know a man’s testosterone is affected by the way people treat him? It’s true.  If you put a man in a position where he is treated like the low man on the totem pole, his testosterone will drop.

After a group of men are thrown together, there is a sorting-out period when a “pecking order” is established.  No one talks about it.  It just happens.  If you watched a video tape of interactions among men after about five days, you would be able to tell who was more of the alpha-male at the top end, and who the people were lower on the pecking order.

Words That Turn Him OnIf you measured each person’s testosterone before and after grouping them together, those at the bottom would experience a drop in testosterone while those toward the top would experience an increase.

Why does this matter?  Because men will lose interest in anyone that accidentally tromps on their ego.  And there are all kinds of ways this happens without you meaning to do it!

The feeling can come from something as simple as the tone of voice you use when offering a compliment!

Does your man dream about you in his future?  Are you the light of your man’s life?   If not, the Respect Principle may have something to do with it.

Check out the free presentation I put together to explain this vital relationship principle.

Here’s How To Turn Him On…

It could make all the difference in the relationship you share with your man.

Wishing you the best in love and life,

James Bauer

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Did you know that the following thought is dominating the mind of the majority of women who have been married/in a relationship for five or more years: “I feel like my husband doesn’t respect and appreciate me”.

Well, considering the very fact that you’re reading this right now, chances are you’re looking for a way to make your husband show you more respect and be more romantic and affectionate? If so, you need to realize that you actually have to set some firm limits with him.

Fact is, if you have a firm, strong and at the same time flexible “core”, your chances of making him be more devoted to you will increase massively. If you on a consistent basis are  ignoring your own will, your personal preferred wants, needs and choices and allow him to be in the “driver’s seat”, you are actually doing nothing more than “going along just to get along”.

How Do I Get My Husband To Respect Me

Can you relate to this? Is he the one who is always making all the decisions, when and where you go on vacation, which restaurant to visit, what kind of new car to buy?

I can tell you right away that you are never going to get him to respect you at the level that you truly deserve if you are letting him take control of you entire relationship.

For this reason, it’s imperative that you speak up and let him know that you have your own preferences and wants. If you don’t agree with him when he makes a suggestion or a decision, you should let him know your thoughts and ideas right away.

If you begin to show him that you’re perfectly capable of letting him know exactly where you stand, he will automatically grasp your common “boundaries” when it comes to your relationship. However, in case you constantly avoid expressing your personal opinions, he is going to take the overall charge and control simply because he does not know exactly where you stand in the matter and what to expect from you in different situations.

It’s a proven fact that men show a lot more respect and admiration towards a woman who is able to stand up for herself, because she is exposing her true authentic self as an individual with a strong mind and firm beliefs.

Bottom line is this: The next time he states his opinion in a matter or makes a decision that involves the both of you as a couple, be sure to politely let him know if you do not agree with him. Naturally, it’s important that you are open to his ideas, however you do not have to accept them for your own.

Remember this: You are for sure going to become a lot less confident and quite certainly more and more bitter if you are constantly hiding your own opinions and letting him rule it all.

So, if your thinking “how do I make my husband respect me?”, be aware that you are doing both yourself, him and your entire relationship together a huge favor if you state your own opinions. And last but not at all least, he will respect you more than you could ever imagine.

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