I think I still love my ex… Are these words haunting your entire existence right now? If so, chances are you’re looking for some tips on how the two of you can find a solution to your past problems and get back together again.
Maybe you think I’m still in love with my ex, but it’s hopeless because they do not love me. How do you know? Perhaps they regret the break up as much as you do.
Unfortunately, when two people split up, they let things slip between them rather than trying to unite and rediscover their earlier passion. There are a number of reasons why. They may feel hurt especially if they were the one who was dumped. They may feel that they will only make fun of themselves if they try to get their ex back. There are even some people who believe all the break ups happen for a reason, and therefore the relationship is best left done.
Well I am happy to say that most if not all of these beliefs are garbage. It is highly unusual for two people in a long term relationship to break up and not have any feelings left for the other person. Yes, it is natural to be hurt regardless of who was the “guilty” partner. It is also quite natural to be afraid to make the first move to reconcile.
But think about this? Would you rather sleep with pride or your lover?
In this future opportunity he or she admits that they never stopped loving you and wanted you back in life all the time. Would not you just kick yourself? Yet this is exactly the scenario you run the risk of not being prepared to make the first move, admit that you think you were wrong to break up and that you want to give things another go.
Come on now, what you stand to lose? Really when it comes down to who you want to waste time thinking I’m still in love with my ex, or would like to take life with both hands, find your ex partner and tell them how you really feel. If you want some hints and tips on how best to approach them, try to read the Magic Of Making Up. Testimonials on the sales page will tell you how often hint in this diamond has worked. You have come to a crossroads in your life and the next move is up to you. You alone have to take 100% responsibility for your actions or lack of them and the results. Do not listen to your family or your friends.
Think about what you want and how your life would look like if you never get your ex back. Now make a decision and go for it. Do not live a life of regrets because of misplaced pride or think you “know” the answer to how others feel.