What Can I Say To Him To Turn Him On?

Are you able to recall what it felt like when you first fell in love with each other, especially how easily you were able to turn him on? According to Relationship expert James Bauer this tremendous state of emotions does necessarily not have to stop.

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How To Become The Light of His Life

Here’s what it feels like to a man when he first falls in love with a woman.  He feels happy.  His happiness flows naturally from expectations of something wonderful in his future.  He feels more connected with the world, even when she’s not around.

His mind is compartmentalized, so he sometimes gets so engrossed in his work that he is literally surprised by the joyful emotions that erupt for a few seconds each time something reminds him of you during the course of his work day.

Tips To Turn My Husband OnIf he continues down this road, the euphoria of love makes him start to adore everything about you.

The edges of your lips, your neckline, the tone of your voice, everything about you starts to seem perfect and magical.  He begins to fantasize about kissing you before his boss snaps him out of it in the middle of a meeting.

This all sounds pretty close to what you would expect so far, right?  Well, what happens next may seem a little odd.

All those positive feelings build into a desire to become your lover.  What that means to a man is very different than what it means to a woman.

In his quest to become your lover, a man’s feelings will shift toward a desire to impress you.  That sounds nice, right?  Well, it can be nice, or not, depending on how you respond to him.

You see, men have a soft spot underneath the hard emotional exterior.  We may act tough, stubborn, angry, or macho on the outside, but all that is really serving a softer emotional need.  Men cannot thrive in a deep passionate type of relationship unless they feel they have a woman’s admiration and respect.

If your man thinks you like him, but he feels you do not really admire him, the “in love” feelings will quickly fade and often extinguish completely like the wick of a candle that has been snuffed out.

If you snuff out the fire from the wick of a candle, it’s out.   You can warm up to him all you want, but he will feel cold and only respond by blowing little wisps of smoke into your face from the extinguished flame.  Many women have felt this.  Some women have been through it more than once in a marriage.

Men desire admiration in a way that women would find hard to believe.  Testosterone is, as you know, the male sex hormone.  When it is active, he feels manly and alive.  He feels happy.

Did you know a man’s testosterone is affected by the way people treat him? It’s true.  If you put a man in a position where he is treated like the low man on the totem pole, his testosterone will drop.

After a group of men are thrown together, there is a sorting-out period when a “pecking order” is established.  No one talks about it.  It just happens.  If you watched a video tape of interactions among men after about five days, you would be able to tell who was more of the alpha-male at the top end, and who the people were lower on the pecking order.

Words That Turn Him OnIf you measured each person’s testosterone before and after grouping them together, those at the bottom would experience a drop in testosterone while those toward the top would experience an increase.

Why does this matter?  Because men will lose interest in anyone that accidentally tromps on their ego.  And there are all kinds of ways this happens without you meaning to do it!

The feeling can come from something as simple as the tone of voice you use when offering a compliment!

Does your man dream about you in his future?  Are you the light of your man’s life?   If not, the Respect Principle may have something to do with it.

Check out the free presentation I put together to explain this vital relationship principle.

Here’s How To Turn Him On…

It could make all the difference in the relationship you share with your man.

Wishing you the best in love and life,

James Bauer

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Here it is: I was with someone on and off for nearly 2 years. It was always me that broke it off, only to go back a few weeks later. I could always tell something wasn’t quite right, undoubtedly within myself. But now, here I am nearly a year after the real breakup, and I seem to be struggling with it just as much as ever. It’s almost embarrassing to admit it. I haven’t really even had the desire to date anyone else, for fear it would only be a rebound. Shit, maybe that’s just what I need…I really don’t know anymore. Seeing how quickly she moved on has only made it more difficult. My confidence isn’t what it used to be, to say the least. I fear I’ll never let anyone compare to her, but then again, I don’t give anyone much of a chance. I’m looking forward to any suggestions you may have. Please help!

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Three years ago, I went out with a certain boy for about a year. After we finally broke up, we haven’t spoken since. However, I’ve been feeling a desire to talk to him again lately. I found his myspace, sent a friend request, and he added me. Then he sent me a message asking how I’ve been and what’s been going on in my life, if I am single, etc. He also asked for my screen name for AIM so I gave it to him. He i/med me not too shortly after and he was telling me about how he was looking at my pictures and how hott/beautiful I am and how he remembers that I’ve always been that way, and that he would really like to take me out on a date again. However, he also told me that he and his girlfriend of two years just recently broke up about a week ago. But then he also tells me he doesn’t know what he was thinking when he let me go, and that he never did forget about me, and he told me about all of the memories he had with me that he misses so much. There’s only one problem. He also says > "I’ve been trying so very hard to get my recent ex back into my life, but I’m just about over it, and about to just give up completely". I don’t know about that, but ever since I started talking to him again, I’ve been feeling like I really want him back. My question is > How do I get his mind off of his ex, and back onto me after all these years? How do I win him back? HELP!!! (Please be as detailed and descriptive as you possibly can to help)
I guess I need more detail. He said he’s almost over his ex but it’s going to take a while longer because he’s still so hurt from it all. So our whole "date" isn’t going to happen till he can get himself together again. He says we can hang out as friends for now, but he’s going to try not to "touch me" or show any affection or anything, like kissing or cuddling. My problem is, I WANT THAT. Now, how do I get it? How can I speed up the rate of him forgetting about his ex to be a little quicker, so we can pick up where we left off three years ago?

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Getting a second chance with your ex boyfriend is by no means an impossible task, even though it might feel exactly like that when you’re heart broken and your emotional state is playing tricks on your mind.

If you’re going through this right now, the following article will help you understand and cope with your situation, and suggest well thought of solutions for you.

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I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back Or Do I?
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Maurice_Krahft]Maurice Krahft

Breaking up with our boyfriend can be so devastating, so numbing, that we can think of nothing else but getting back together with him.  That focus and desire to be with him is so intense it obscures the reason behind the break up in the first place.

If you decide to put forth an effort to win him back, be sure you have given enough thought to how much you have to sacrifice to have him back in your life. No doubt you are familiar with the old saw–You Can’t Live With ‘Em And You Can’t Live Without ‘Em.

So really stop and give it some thought to this;  Would it be easier or better to be with him or without him?  The reason for the break up–was it an isolated incident, a spontaneous thing, a little spark that ignited, words exchanged, things getting out of hand.  Or was it something that had been simmering for a while?  A long running issue that appears to have no resolution is usually a sign of something serious, with potential relationship ending consequences.

So How Much Do I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back?

Before you fully commit to getting your ex boyfriend back, (which should be doable if you go about it in the right way.) decide if you can live with the issues involving your ex.

Are those moments of bliss going to be overshadowed, or even overwhelmed by those issues?  Only you can make that determination.

Is it Love or Loneliness?

It is not unusual, especially in a relationship that was long enough to establish some sort of routine, you got used to doing certain things with that significant other, socializing with a regular group of people, hanging out at different places, doing things that became a ritual, it could have been exclusively social, or sports or perhaps hobby related.  When the relationship ended, that may have all went away, or a significant part if it. Sometimes that leaves such a void that people are frantic to get their ex back to retrieve that part of their life. So the question is, is it Love or Loneliness?

Who Was at Fault for the Breakup?

The only reason for determining fault, is for the purpose of self examination. If it was your fault, are you willing to take the necessary steps to change?

If it was his fault, how likely is he to change?  Now as far as yourself, sometimes, we don’t even realize how trying we personally may have been as a partner,  little (or not so little) annoying habits or quirks, things we may have

said or did that drove the guy crazy, but we never stopped to think about it. And he may never have said anything, just to keep the peace.

Has He Moved On?

Depending on whether or not you have been in contact with him, or know what he has been up to, it helps to know if he is dating someone else. If he is seeing someone it just means your approach has to be a little different. This doesn’t mean you are out to destroy whatever he has got going, but simply to find out if there may be a spark of desire left in  your old flame.

Don’t Forget the Basic Break up Rules

You may be familiar with some of the more basic rules when it comes to How To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back, but these rules are worth repeating:

1. Do not communicate with your ex at least for the first 30 days.  As difficult as it may be, you both need time away from each other, to reflect on what you had.

2. Keep telling yourself you are OK with the breakup.  You accept it. You are moving on.  Though it may seem counterproductive,  it helps you from  being totally consumed with grief and anxiety.

3. Focus on You becoming a better you.   Think back to when you first met your ex, and think, what was  it about you that attracted him to you.  Have you changed from that person you were then?  And don’t sit home alone because you are lonely and miserable.  Get out and do things with your friends.

It Takes a Long Time Trying to Figure it All Out Yourself.

A lot of trial and error can put you on the wrong side of where you want to be with your ex.  That said, knowing what to do is one thing. How exactly to go about it is another subject that can’t be left to chance. Over 50,000 Exes have put their trust in the Magic of Making up. Read a review of MOM at my website, watch my YouTube overview of Mom and get your FREE download of The Clean Slate Method–How to Apologize, all at my site– http://yesiwantmyexback.com

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Can I love again?

Im sure this will sound lame, but i cant get over it. I was dating this girl for a while, and i truly loved her, it really wasnt working out,and she left, and i wasnt really looking for love when it began. However, now I feel like she was THE ONE, i felt that way during the relationship, its been over a year now, and i dont even look at girls, i really dont want anyone else, i highly doubt she’ll ever be with me again. She does call me a lot and always says little things like, you should be here with me, i miss you, etc, (i moved 800 miles away) She is the only person, the only thing Ive ever loved, i was really depressed when i was 14-18, but I got over it for quite a while, (met her when i was 19.) Now i have no desire to do anything, Ive given up on ever being happy and im getting really depressed again. Whats wrong with me? I know im young and i sould get over it, but that just makes it worse. I really need help.

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