What Can I Say To Him To Turn Him On?

Are you able to recall what it felt like when you first fell in love with each other, especially how easily you were able to turn him on? According to Relationship expert James Bauer this tremendous state of emotions does necessarily not have to stop.

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How To Become The Light of His Life

Here’s what it feels like to a man when he first falls in love with a woman.  He feels happy.  His happiness flows naturally from expectations of something wonderful in his future.  He feels more connected with the world, even when she’s not around.

His mind is compartmentalized, so he sometimes gets so engrossed in his work that he is literally surprised by the joyful emotions that erupt for a few seconds each time something reminds him of you during the course of his work day.

Tips To Turn My Husband OnIf he continues down this road, the euphoria of love makes him start to adore everything about you.

The edges of your lips, your neckline, the tone of your voice, everything about you starts to seem perfect and magical.  He begins to fantasize about kissing you before his boss snaps him out of it in the middle of a meeting.

This all sounds pretty close to what you would expect so far, right?  Well, what happens next may seem a little odd.

All those positive feelings build into a desire to become your lover.  What that means to a man is very different than what it means to a woman.

In his quest to become your lover, a man’s feelings will shift toward a desire to impress you.  That sounds nice, right?  Well, it can be nice, or not, depending on how you respond to him.

You see, men have a soft spot underneath the hard emotional exterior.  We may act tough, stubborn, angry, or macho on the outside, but all that is really serving a softer emotional need.  Men cannot thrive in a deep passionate type of relationship unless they feel they have a woman’s admiration and respect.

If your man thinks you like him, but he feels you do not really admire him, the “in love” feelings will quickly fade and often extinguish completely like the wick of a candle that has been snuffed out.

If you snuff out the fire from the wick of a candle, it’s out.   You can warm up to him all you want, but he will feel cold and only respond by blowing little wisps of smoke into your face from the extinguished flame.  Many women have felt this.  Some women have been through it more than once in a marriage.

Men desire admiration in a way that women would find hard to believe.  Testosterone is, as you know, the male sex hormone.  When it is active, he feels manly and alive.  He feels happy.

Did you know a man’s testosterone is affected by the way people treat him? It’s true.  If you put a man in a position where he is treated like the low man on the totem pole, his testosterone will drop.

After a group of men are thrown together, there is a sorting-out period when a “pecking order” is established.  No one talks about it.  It just happens.  If you watched a video tape of interactions among men after about five days, you would be able to tell who was more of the alpha-male at the top end, and who the people were lower on the pecking order.

Words That Turn Him OnIf you measured each person’s testosterone before and after grouping them together, those at the bottom would experience a drop in testosterone while those toward the top would experience an increase.

Why does this matter?  Because men will lose interest in anyone that accidentally tromps on their ego.  And there are all kinds of ways this happens without you meaning to do it!

The feeling can come from something as simple as the tone of voice you use when offering a compliment!

Does your man dream about you in his future?  Are you the light of your man’s life?   If not, the Respect Principle may have something to do with it.

Check out the free presentation I put together to explain this vital relationship principle.

Here’s How To Turn Him On…

It could make all the difference in the relationship you share with your man.

Wishing you the best in love and life,

James Bauer

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Hey guys,

Basically my ex-girlfriend whom I’ve dated for 2 years and known for 4 years broke up with me 9 months ago. 7 months ago she started to like my ex-friend to the point where he kissed her on the lips even though he had a girlfriend at the time. Fast forward to today. My ex-girlfriend and I’ve decided to become friends. I’m not really over the fact that she liked my ex-friend. I’m really more mad at my ex-friend than my ex-girlfriend because I hate people that flirt with other girls even when they have a girlfriend themselves (basically a player)

My ex-friend is seriously a snake in the grass who can never be trusted. My ex-girlfriend and I had been growing together from the last four weeks. I’ve done everything with her like bring her flowers at work just to let her know that I care for her and even let her cry on my shoulders when she’s having a rough day at school (We’re both in college)

Now 2 days ago, my ex-friend shows up in my ex-girlfriend’s dorm room and I lost my temper and almost punched him (I just grabbed his collar). I grabbed my stuff and just told my girlfriend to stay out of my life. I even told her that I wanted all my stuff back but she refused to give them back.

The other night, she told me that she didn’t want me out of her life and so I told her that she needed to pick because I didn’t want to put up with it anymore even though I still love her a lot. When I asked her why she invited him over after months of not doing anything with him she couldn’t answer why. She told me it was stupid and that she was confused with her feelings still. She wanted my ex-friend to be her friend that would occasionally call her and go to lunch together with.
I know my ex-friend is just trying to get into her pants because he definitely talked about to my ex-girlfriend how much he missed sex with his ex-girlfriend and was just basically saying how he messed up with my ex-girlfriend.

I just don’t know what to do in this scenario. Was I wrong to lose my temper? I’m confused why my ex-girlfriend would do something like this to me again. Why would she do it? I also know that my ex-friend also tried to sleep with one of his workers at work (who is in high school) and I have the necessary proof to prove that he was doing this (chat logs with my ex-girlfriend). Should I turn him in? I used to work at the same place as him so I’m credible with my ex-bosses. Please any help would be appreciated!

-Torn Student

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Is my book good enough?

I am in the long, entertaining process of writing a novel, and I just wanted to know, from what I put, if it sounds good, bad, or in between. If you have a comment please tell me.
Here it goes:
As planned, I choked once I did see him. The pretty brunette at the front of the room had taken no time to register me into a desk. It’s really, honestly too bad that I had been seated in front of him, definitely. I wasn’t quite sure of why. In my eyes, it was between the fact that I had actually been forced to be near him, and the revulsion I felt because I couldn’t see his face. Either way, I knew we would have to meet, somehow.
Hearing the frantic beat of my own heart is what startled me.
It was not something I could erase-the feeling I got in my stomach when I felt his warm breath over my shoulder. Even though I knew I was already trapped, spoken for, I still wanted my heart to listen to me. This attraction to him was subtle, not a situation I would have ever placed myself in. I could change that, defy destiny. If this was destiny.
So I ignored it. I flung the idea out of my brain and ordered it to never come back. The natural sentiment, however, remained unscathed.
Suddenly, a tingle of warmth touched my shoulder. At first, I was sure he had poked me, but when I turned to reject it, his face stayed steady below, on the sheet of paper he had been scribbling on, and his back was glued to the rear of the chair. Result: nowhere within reach of me.
I could have forgotten, how quickly he seemed to look up, but it would have certainly returned.
“Hello.” His lovely lips moved in a chain reaction. I flinched, bewildered.
It took me almost a quarter of a second before I could even make up a response. “Hi.” One magic word was all I needed to say; nothing fancy.
I’d thought I’d seen it all: the astounding good looks, the silver eyes. But the grin that now played on his lips, was all I needed-wanted- to stop time. It was sideways, crooked, but hopelessly remarkable. There could only be one word for a smile like that: irresistible.
He sat up, and gleefully held out his hand. “I’m Michael Chast,” His voice was almost as enthralling. “And you are?”
Oh, my turn to speak. Wait. I couldn’t remember my name. What was it? “Jaycee Swallows.” Relief.
The smiled hadn’t yet calmed down. “Well, Jaycee Swallows, I would love to show you around, if you’re alright with that?”
Here it goes again. I couldn’t think. I couldn’t talk. What was wrong with me? “Great. That would be great.” No, I didn’t mean to say that.
“Can I see your schedule?”
Word vomit. “Yeah, no problem.” No. No.
Please tell me what you think, and how I can improve, thanks!
Actually, she didnt think he touched her because she was nervous.
To find out what happened, you’ll have to read the whole book, if it ever gets published. :)
Wish me good luck!

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Fingers snap, crowds clap, body jack, heart attack, lips lock, knees knock, half shirt, short skirt, glitter cheek, night’s peak, last chance romance, her glasses catch the neon in a never-ending second glance

I googled it a bunch of times and looks like people know the lyrics to it but dont know what song they heard it from. I’m just looking for the artist and song name
Found the song and artist after some long searching heres a link to the discography. http://www.discogs.com/release/708557

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What do you think of my lyrics?


if you could only see the way
he looks at you when you turn away
you wouldn’t have to wonder
is this love

the way he watches you move your lips
and when you stumble, fall and when you trip
but you turn to see him
and hes gone

so come on
take a chance
ask that girl out
to the dance

Chours: I wanna know more about you
I wanna know your favorite colors blue
I need to know
I need to know
I wanna know the way you feel inside
don’t let your true colors hide
I need to know
I need to know

I hear you might ask me to the dance
but this could be a fake romance
I ask my friends
what I should do

they say go on take a chance
go on go with him to the dance
you’ll have a great time
dancing under the stars


then one day you take me by surprise
you reveal your hidden disguise
what am I to do



I find it hard to believe the way your looking at her
u think she’s just another pretty girl
but theres more to her than just her dark brown curls
she’s different from those other girls

she lays there at night counting the celing panels
so far shes counted 492
she watches tv flipping aimlessy through channels
can’t wait till she gets through

to scared to show her real self she hides behind
and wishes you knew your always on her mind
she makes a fingerprint engraved in your skin
the most beautiful tattoo it makes your head spin
so get her to open her eyes and see what the rest of the world sees
because she feels far away, bring me back louise

I wish she could see just what you do
because when she looks in the mirror she doesn’t see whats true
that girl with freckles all over her cheeks
the one who barely murmurs a word, the one who never speaks



Verse 1
i’m over the fight over the fear
the end of the dark is finally here
i’m not letting go i’m trying to show
just how i feel this loves really real

ive just got to keep trying ill get there someday
who knows tomorrow, maybe today
keep holding on, were almost there
don’t worry babe I promise I swear

the walls start to crumble
were almost there
weve got to hurry up no time to spare
grab my hand ill lead the way
the times flying by, disapeering away
i was stuck under ground
without any light
for just too long but now it’s right

Verse 3
your deep blue eyes set into my face
nothing here but wide open space
the walls around me have finally gone
I am now free to move on

i now know what i want it is easy to see
im looking at you your looking at me


50 years from now

Were jumping up and down on my old trampoline
I look up at the sky it’s an amazing clear blue
the green in your eyes shines next to the yellow flowers in bloom
we pump our legs to see who can pump higher
our hair blows in the wind and we play hide and seek
the days fly by and soon Monday is Friday
and one day the day will come when I’ll have to leave

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now

We’ve got our pink dresses and our makeup on
we go downstairs and play singstar until the morning
we’d pick handfuls of honeysuckles in the spring
We wouldn’t spend a second away from each other
people were always like wow those girls are always together
we linked arms and walked at the same pace
and I’d look at your smile and think I don’t want to leave this place

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now x2

Who knows where will be in the future
nothing is certain but all I know for now is one thing
that I’ll be sitting next to you 50 years from now

please let me know what you think. thanks in advance :)

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