What Can I Say To Him To Turn Him On?

Are you able to recall what it felt like when you first fell in love with each other, especially how easily you were able to turn him on? According to Relationship expert James Bauer this tremendous state of emotions does necessarily not have to stop.

This is an exceptional good read, so please enjoy!

Stephanie

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How To Become The Light of His Life

Here’s what it feels like to a man when he first falls in love with a woman.  He feels happy.  His happiness flows naturally from expectations of something wonderful in his future.  He feels more connected with the world, even when she’s not around.

His mind is compartmentalized, so he sometimes gets so engrossed in his work that he is literally surprised by the joyful emotions that erupt for a few seconds each time something reminds him of you during the course of his work day.

Tips To Turn My Husband OnIf he continues down this road, the euphoria of love makes him start to adore everything about you.

The edges of your lips, your neckline, the tone of your voice, everything about you starts to seem perfect and magical.  He begins to fantasize about kissing you before his boss snaps him out of it in the middle of a meeting.

This all sounds pretty close to what you would expect so far, right?  Well, what happens next may seem a little odd.

All those positive feelings build into a desire to become your lover.  What that means to a man is very different than what it means to a woman.

In his quest to become your lover, a man’s feelings will shift toward a desire to impress you.  That sounds nice, right?  Well, it can be nice, or not, depending on how you respond to him.

You see, men have a soft spot underneath the hard emotional exterior.  We may act tough, stubborn, angry, or macho on the outside, but all that is really serving a softer emotional need.  Men cannot thrive in a deep passionate type of relationship unless they feel they have a woman’s admiration and respect.

If your man thinks you like him, but he feels you do not really admire him, the “in love” feelings will quickly fade and often extinguish completely like the wick of a candle that has been snuffed out.

If you snuff out the fire from the wick of a candle, it’s out.   You can warm up to him all you want, but he will feel cold and only respond by blowing little wisps of smoke into your face from the extinguished flame.  Many women have felt this.  Some women have been through it more than once in a marriage.

Men desire admiration in a way that women would find hard to believe.  Testosterone is, as you know, the male sex hormone.  When it is active, he feels manly and alive.  He feels happy.

Did you know a man’s testosterone is affected by the way people treat him? It’s true.  If you put a man in a position where he is treated like the low man on the totem pole, his testosterone will drop.

After a group of men are thrown together, there is a sorting-out period when a “pecking order” is established.  No one talks about it.  It just happens.  If you watched a video tape of interactions among men after about five days, you would be able to tell who was more of the alpha-male at the top end, and who the people were lower on the pecking order.

Words That Turn Him OnIf you measured each person’s testosterone before and after grouping them together, those at the bottom would experience a drop in testosterone while those toward the top would experience an increase.

Why does this matter?  Because men will lose interest in anyone that accidentally tromps on their ego.  And there are all kinds of ways this happens without you meaning to do it!

The feeling can come from something as simple as the tone of voice you use when offering a compliment!

Does your man dream about you in his future?  Are you the light of your man’s life?   If not, the Respect Principle may have something to do with it.

Check out the free presentation I put together to explain this vital relationship principle.

Here’s How To Turn Him On…

It could make all the difference in the relationship you share with your man.

Wishing you the best in love and life,

James Bauer

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How Do I Make Him More Affectionate?

Here’s an outstanding article I just found by relationship expert James Bauer.

James has a genuine understanding of what men are thinking and he can prevent you from having a relationship breakdown with this one particular method. Here is his message below – Enjoy!

Stephanie

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The Emotion that Kills Passionate Feelings in Men

Can your husband turn you on when he’s been acting like an absolute jerk all day, hurting your feelings and making you feel small and worthless?  Not unless his behavior changes radically, and even then the chances are rather small.

These days most people realize a woman’s brain is the organ of the body that matters most when it comes to turning on the passion in a relationship.  It’s much less common to find a person who knows the same thing is true about a man.

Get Him To Be More PassionateYes, men can be interested in sex even when there is emotional tension in the relationship, but I’m talking about the aspects of the relationship that men have to work harder at.

I’m talking about the non-sex parts that make up 95% of the joy and meaning both partners feel in a truly committed relationship.  Relationship issues and emotions do affect that part of passion for men.

That’s right, men need to feel a certain way if you want them to perform.  If you want him to be really deeply engaged in the relationship, you’ve got to pay attention to his mind and emotions.

But which emotions matter most to a man?  It’s not the same stuff that matters the most to a woman.

I’ll tell you the answer.  Before I do, I need to prepare you.  It’s not what you would expect, and you might doubt the importance of it when I tell you.  Remember that men experience relationships differently.  As a result, the issue that matters most to men may strike you as petty or small.

In a relationship, the most important thing that will affect a man’s ability to perform is the level of respect he feels in the attitudes, actions, and words of the people around him. When I say, “perform,” I am referring to emotional openness, willingness to work through problems, true investment in the relationship, and the desire to make you happy above all else.

In my early twenties, there were two women who both expressed an interest in me.  Both of them were very attractive.  Both of these women were very attractive to me.  That’s where the comparison broke down though.  The way they treated me was very different.  They both attempted to use complements to spark conversations and show their interest, but they did so in very different ways.

The first woman (we’ll call her Janet) was sitting at a table with me and eight other acquaintances when she made her approach.  This may seem a bit ridiculous, but remember we were in our early 20s and still basically just kids.  She was giggling a lot (she almost always did) and talking in hushed tones for a few seconds with her close girlfriend sitting beside her before she turned to me and said, “I bet you would look really good with your shirt off.”  She had a silly grin on her face and no shame for her boldness.

The other woman (we’ll call her Nicole) approached me one day as we both exited a building and headed down a sidewalk after a social event.  She walked beside me for a moment, making small talk before changing her tone of voice slightly to a more serious tone.  She said, “I was really impressed with what you said to Bill and Sarah last week.”  She turned her head and looked me in the eye at this point, and continued, “Your wisdom’s going to take you a long way in this world, you know.”

Can you guess which one of these women got my attention?  Was it Janet or Nicole?

Get Him To Show More AffectionThe truth is, they both got my attention.  Only one caused me to feel deeply respected.  At the moment I experienced true respect from Nicole, I could suddenly see visions of myself in a long-term relationship with her.

Experiencing the weight of her respect caused me to want to welcome her into my life and promise my heart to her.  I suddenly felt a deep trust for her and the desire to never lose the deep respect she seemed to hold for me.

Sarah got my attention too, but I felt like she saw me as some kind of plaything.  I believe she had a genuine desire to pay a compliment, but I did not feel respected.  I felt she was not respecting “me,” the deeper me, the real me.

True respect is demonstrated, not just spoken with words.  This is a concept that is difficult to explain without a lot of examples and more in-depth explanation.  Because of that, I put together a video that describes a profound experience I have had with teaching women what I now call “The Respect Principle.”

Here’s How To Make Him More Affectionate

As a professional dating coach, there are few things I have to offer women that have a more deep and powerful effect in their lives.  Respect matters to men in ways women just can’t see (without a little training in male psychology).

If you’d like to learn how to implement this concept in your own relationships, follow the link below to a presentation I put together on The Respect Principle.

Awake His Passion For You…

Wishing you the best in love and life,

James Bauer

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Make Her Want Me More

make her want me more

Is it any working way to make her want me more?

You imagine that life would be much more interesting and exciting if you could get any woman to be deeply attracted to you, and you are probably right! Most men are pretty clueless about how to get more compelling and attractive to the girl of their dreams. It’s actually quite easy to beat a woman and make her want you.

Spark Attraction

You do not really need much to get a woman to want you desperately. All you need to do is tell yourself that you have what it takes to be a woman magnet. Be positive about yourself and prepare yourself mentally for success in this area. The confidence will automatically ignite attraction.

Have a charismatic personality

Women love men who are dynamic and powerful. The high status draws them like a moth to a candle flame. If you are constantly seeking approval and apparently needy and desperate you will portray yourself as weak and uninteresting. She will want to avoid you.

Look devastatingly attractive

It is no secret that women love men who are sexually “hot” and attractive. You do not have to be born with Tom Cruise looks like or have an extra super body. All you need is style, poise and confidence to pull it off. Most times women can not seem to get the NOK of a man who has a great personality and character.

Try to be reserved

If you’re going to hang around her all the time waiting for the measly bones she throws you from time to time, you’re going to lose their interest and respect. Do not show her how much you need her. Make her make the chase for a change. Be unavailable and “busy”, so she starts to miss you. She will want to see you more after this treatment.

Hit on her best friend

If the girl you love has been to give you the cold shoulder and ignore you, then maybe you could show her that she is not the only one around. Paying attention to his best friend will make her feel angry, if not jealous. She will suddenly want you like crazy and be afraid that she might lose you.

Tease and flirt with her

Let your boyfriend know that you love her. Tease her with your looks and romantic gestures. Let her know that she is beautiful, but refrain from doing anything more than just hugging or kissing her lightly. She will be driven mad with desire for you.

Excite her

Whisper sweet words in her ear and be gentle and patient. You will be rewarded. If you take the time to be tender and passionate for her weak in the knees, and want you more.

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The Break-Up’ — soon available on www.bringtheloveback.com – is about the relationship between an advertiser and a consumer. They’ve agreed to meet in a restaurant. The man’s feeling perfectly happy, until the woman makes a painful announcement: she wants a divorce. In the course of their conversation she makes it clear to him why she is leaving him. And he makes it very clear that he doesn’t have an empathic bone in his body. At the end of the movie the woman walks away disappointed but determined. The advertiser stays behind alone. Go and have a look at bringtheloveback.com

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Does loyalty mean anything to them?

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